Here’s the thing about tips: they become pressure-cookers for strong feelings.

Here’s the thing about tips: they become pressure-cookers for strong feelings. More people feels as though he or she shouldn’t be doing some thing, the more pity he or she may go through. In the place of serving as a motivator to eliminate behaviour, embarrassment gets paralyzing. In partnerships where an information is actually finally announced, lovers may spin into suggestions loops which they answer each other and increase one other person’s anxieties, often without getting in a position to...

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